Bullies

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Bullying
When people hear the term bullying, they might remember when they were in school and saw or experience it personally. For most, the bullying happen between middle to high school, with some happening in college. And probably, the bullying wasn't too harsh and we simply think of it as some kind of tradition that most kids go through. But for others, bullying has blemish them for life or even produced woeful tragedies. For those victims and their families, bullying has cost them a great deal of pain, without nobody paying for their losses. Some feel like bullying is just rough teasing, others think that bullying should be classified as a form of harassment, and for those that have lost someone dear to them because of bullying are pushing for bullying to become a criminal offense. People are still trying to determined in what category bullying falls under and what is the fair way to deal with it. A lot of people are starting to acknowledge that something needs to be done and fast because bullying is affecting a lot of us, not just the victims anymore. But the question most are asking is; should bullying be consider a crime.
A bully is someone that intimidates someone smaller and weaker than them, and sometimes uses physical force to get their victim to do something against their will. A bully can be a person with low personal self esteem and only feels like someone of interest when they bullying others. Some people think that a bully is a person that does not receive enough love or attention from their parents and take it out on others. When someone is victimized by a bully, people call this “bullying”. Bullying has been around for a while, but never has it done this much damage where the victims have either started to retaliate and attack their offender or have the victims commit suicide. Bullying is getting harder and harder to stop,…...

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